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Services as Unique as You

As humans, we are different. So, why are most funerals so unoriginal? The 23rd psalm is beautiful and traditional, but because it is popular shouldn’t be the only reason why we recite it at funeral...
By Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Thursday, January 6, 2022

The American Dream

Small, family owned funeral homes are dying— no pun intended.  Whether they are closing their doors completely or selling out to corporate America, this factual trend in the funeral industry i...
By Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Tuesday, September 14, 2021

Hugging is Back in Style

There is power behind receiving an embrace in the midst of a stressful and heartbroken moment. You don’t feel alone… For the last 15 months, whether grief struck your life or not, we all felt al...
By Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Wednesday, June 30, 2021

Having the Last Word

Have you ever had a discussion where you HAD to make the final remark? Or there was one more thing you wished you told someone? I’m sure we all had arguments or debates where we wan...
By Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Tuesday, February 16, 2021

SAVING “Goodbye”

2020. Singularly the most depressing year known in my lifetime. Being a funeral director at the peak of the COVID19 pandemic, that is a whole other kind of depressing.  Imagine a casket surro...
By Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Monday, November 2, 2020

Into the Unknown: Living through crisis as a child and now as an adult

Into the Unknown  Living through crisis as a child and now as an adult     It was your typical Tuesday. Our homeroom stood and sang the Pledge of Allegiance before the daily anno...
By Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Wednesday, September 2, 2020

NORMAL IS A DRYER SETTING

Most kids normally don’t say, “When I grow up, I want to be a funeral home director.” Brittany DeMarco-Furman didn't either, despite her family being in the business since her great-grandfather sta...
By Jenna Caputo (SilverPenProductions) Interviewing Brittany DeMarco-Furman
In Our Voice
Friday, July 17, 2020

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How to Plan for Terminal Illness 
When Faced with Letting Go

Saying goodbye is one of the hardest things to do in life. In death, it only gets harder. When you or a loved one is diagnosed with a terminal illness, it can be tough to know what to do next. Howe...

Fighting back our own Pandemic

  2020 has been the worst year ever! And I started this blog before the CoronaVirus.   6 weeks before the current widespread pandemic, I lost the matriarch of my family. The keep...

Protecting the Greatest Generation

I’ve been sharing a lot of funny memes and keeping things light throughout this entire crisis. For the power of laughter and holding on to faith that the rainbow is 'just around the riverbed' (Yes...

7 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Moving Following a Loss

There is no right or wrong way to deal with grief. Different people react to loss differently and move on in different ways. This is why there is no right answer to the question of whether to move ...

Dear Funeral Director: Don’t just put out my wedding album

  Right before I sat down to start this blog about what a memorial video is and how no one ever regrets having one made, I started to think about how annoying I am on Facebook. I post so much...

Spartan Cheerleader Turned Funeral Director

My reflection growing up as a Spartan in less than 2,000 words is more challenging than writing my college essay. But, the parade boss (Rick Reynolds) has trusted me in doing the impossible for yo...

Featured Article in NEW YORK STATE FUNERAL DIRECTOR ASSOCIATION

Hometown:  Glenville, NY Mortuary School Attended:  Hudson Valley Community College Date Licensed: March 2019   What made you interested in a career in funeral service?  ...