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Patty (Wilder) Eschler posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2017
Chris and Warren,
I'm so sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. My heart goes out to you and your entire family.
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Michael Santangelo posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2017
To Warren and family. My condolences in the loss of Debbie. May she rest in peace and light shine upon her. Michael Santangelo
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Carter posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2017
Deb had a profound impact on my life, as well as the lives of so many others I know. She will be missed and remembered by so many people.
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Kara DiCaterino posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2017
I believe I first met Debbie during a production of Secret Garden with Spotlight Players about 15 years ago. As our paths crossed time and time again she became a dear friend and mentor. I don't have the words to express how much she meant to me or to many others. She was a shining star here on Earth. I think the night sky shines a little brighter now with her light shining down on us. I will always remember her fondly and will miss her terribly.
To her family, I offer my deepest condolences, love, and hugs. While this is surely a difficult time, I hope that you are able to find some comfort in knowing how many lives she truly touched, how much she meant to so many people, and how far her legacy reaches.
"I've heard it said,
That people come into our lives
For a reason
Bringing something we must learn.
And we are led to those
Who help us most to grow if we let them.
And we help them in return.
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you.
Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes the sun,
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood.
Who can say if I've been changed for the better
But because I knew you.
I have been changed for good.
It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime.
So, let me say before we part:
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you.
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart.
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have rewritten mine
By being my friend.
Like a ship blown from its mooring
By a wind off the sea.
Like a seed dropped by a sky bird
In a distant wood.
Who can say if I've been changed for the better
But because I knew you...
Because I knew you...
I have been changed for good."
-From the musical, "Wicked"
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Joe Malone posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
Deb - It was a honor to have shared the stage with you. I only wish I had shared it more often. Your last curtain call has come much too soon. Joe
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Michelle Sausa-Gatta posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
Tom, Richard and I are so sadden to hear of the passing of Debbie. She was a wonderful and talented lady who will be greatly missed by all. Rest In Peace Debbie....
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Katy Grady posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
My prayers are with you, Debbie's friends and family, at this sad time.
I knew Debbie through our participation in plays at the Colonial Little Theatre in Johnstown, NY. She was a larger-than-life woman with a sharp wit and great acting and musical talent. In that way she reminded me of Ethel Merman; such was her stage presence. Of all the shows we did together and separately, to me one performance stands out. Debbie was cast against type as Dulcinea in The Man of La Mancha, and it turned out to be a perfect match for her talent. There were several intense scenes for her character, and I was blown away by her acting. Even though we hadn't seen each other for years, I'm sure we would have picked up where we left off years ago.
Again, I am sorry to hear of her passing.
Katy Grady
Johnstown, NY
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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How many of our lives have been touched by Deb's kindness, sense of humor, expertise and talent. We will miss her. Heartfelt sympathy to her family.
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Janet, Peter, and Mimi Davis posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Dear Chris and Warrie,
We are so sorry to hear about Debbie. We have so many fond memories of all of us growing up together. She will be missed.
Sincerely,
Janet, Peter, Mimi, and our families
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Judy Rhodes posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Chris,
I am so sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. I will always remember the good times we all had doing the HS musicals and what a beautiful voice she had.
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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To the family of Deborah May,
My deepest condolences for your loss. Debbie was always a shining star and will be missed. As a fellow classmate of JHS Class of 72, I'm deeply saddened by her loss. Rest in piece Debbie.
Chrissy Thomas Reynolds
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Richard Rovazzini posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Warren and Family,
There aren't any words that I can write here to heal the pain that you are feeling right now.
Please accept our sincere condolence on the lost of your sister.
Regards,
Rich Rovazzini and Deb Callahan
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Debbie May was an inspiration in high school. I was involved in every show, summer performances included, and I learned so much from her. I ended up getting my Bachelors in Stage Management and just directed my first elementary school musical this spring. Throughout the whole experience I thought about how Debbie ran her shows. I accepted everyone who auditioned because she always welcomed all. I ran my notes the same way she did. I kept rehearsals fun and funny because she did the same. I even created a special gift for each of my students at the end of the show, because at every cast party Debbie would do the same, going down the line to say something special about each and every one of the members of her enormous cast and crew. She has been an enormous influence in my life and she will be missed.
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Linda Lewis posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
I hope Debbie's family can find peace knowing that she touched the lives of so many young people in such a positive way as a guidance counselor, a director, a mentor, a role model, a cheerleader, and a friend. She has influenced the whole Scotia-Glenville community with her gifts and talents. She was truly a special lady.
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Theresa posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
I met Debbie when we did theatre together at CLT. She was fun to work with and always had advice to give. You could see her love of theatre written all over her face. Those theatre days and hanging out at her ex husband's place were some of the best (and craziest) memories I have.
Blue has never been bluer
True has never been truer
Honey never tasted so sweet
There's a song in the breeze
A million voices in praise
A rose has never smelled redder
The sun has never been brighter
If I could find the right words to say
If you could look at my face
If you could just see this place
You wouldn't cry for me today
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Christine Vermilyea posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Debbie was a force of nature. She will be missed. Please accept my deepest condolences.
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Marilyn posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
I only knew Ms May through my kids involvement with SGHS Drama Club. She was very passionate about theater. She will truly be missed. Prayers for your family.
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Rena Lane posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
It won't be the same anymore without Debbie. Her loss will be felt by many...her spirit was so strong, and touched so many, it's like right now, things seem a little off balance. I remember once, many years ago, Debbie came to a Christmas party I gave...well since 12/25 was also her birthday, I had a birthday cake and a birthday card and present for her. She was so touched, she cried and said, no one had ever really done that for her...she was actually blown away that she had an actual birthday card, birthday cake and birthday wrapping paper...that had no mention of Christmas on it. Something that small...Debbie, you gave so much to so many....we all love you. ~~~Rena
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Carolyn J Mills posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Debbie was a great woman full of talent. She was fun to be around with her good nature and great smile. I send my condolences to her family and friends. I especially send my condolences to her children as losing your mom is probably the hardest thing next to losing a child. The family is in my prayers.
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Karen Gillmore Sackett posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
To the family of Debbie, I send my condolences on her passing . I have many fond memories of growing up with Debbie through school and church. My she be at peace now, and always. "Break a leg" Debbie, dazzle them in heaven!
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Timothy Coombs posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
I will always cherish Deb for her concern for the kid who was lost and providing him or her with the opportunity to shine on the stage. IMO, I think, outside of her own family, that was the aspect of her rich life that she was most proud. To some she was a little too brash, a quality which I always admired about her, but there was no denying her heart was big enough for a whole theater company. She was a great influence in my sons' lives, which made me a huge Debbie May fan. She touched so many young lives in her tenure at SGHS. Be at peace, my friend.
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Monday, June 19, 2017
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Michael McDermott posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Theater inspires.
Our lives grow richer and deeper through the arts. Theater brings experiences that show us different thoughts and feeling. The way we look at the world changes through a lens that is wider in scope than the narrow vision we brought into the doors of the house. Theater teaches. Theater inspires. I was blessed to have teacher that showed me some wonderful lessons. And today we celebrate her life at the news of her passing. Deborah May was on the very first show I ever did, Peter Tyger's American Dream. She was cast and was featured in our photos of the most recent show I've been associated with, Taffeta Memories, which opened this weekend. So, from start to finish we've seen a lot together. I was cast as a last minute substitute in Peter's play at ACT. He was rehearsing and writing the play ( Act 2 wasn't done till three weeks before opening). So he had the luxury of writing parts for the actors already cast. And he loved writing the part of a sassy Irish immigrant for Deb. ( He was working on a sequel, American Gold, which took the main characters westward for the gold rush of '49. He had a sassy Madame of a house of ill repute based on Deb, called Virginia Ham. I can still see the image of her in that never to be completed production. )American Dream introduced me to so many wonderful friends. June Taylor Casey, Krysta Dennis, Kerry Conte, Noelle Gentile, Paula Ginder, Doug Peek, But it was Deb who gave me guidance and pointers in my first acting role as an adult. She explained the process, guided me in how to memorize. Explained how to manage the backstage anxieties.
A few years later Inwas blessed with a unique opportunity to share the stage with my sweet son Brendan Mack in one if his last roles in this area, in the Fantasticks under Deb's direction at SCP. Matt Harvey was originally cast, but couldn't do the role so I was able to slide in and share the stage with my son and Peter in a fantastic production. Our paths crossed many times socially but never again in the theater until several weeks ago when I was delighted that she was cast in Taffeta Memories, a show I am doing set and other assorted duties on. I was thrilled to be back with her. We had cone full circle, and her was Krysta , now Dr. Dennis, producing a show that we together were involved with. Alas, she dropped out of the production right after publicity photos for the surgery. But I'll always have the joy to know that at least she had these last several weeks of the joy of rehearsing and singing with the other girls in a wonderful musical review. She made not have made it to opening night, but she went out working on a production that gave her some enjoyment. I'll always remember the things she taught me on American Dream. "You're all right kid. Keep at this and you might be something". Till we meet again my dear, till we meet again.
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Allison Sharpley posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
I so wish I could be there for the memorial. Deb was a huge role model to me. She was so warm, funny and a tough cookie when she had to be. She taught me so much about being a respectful actor and human being. This world has lost such a bright light. My love and condolences go out to her entire family and to those who are as heartbroken over her passing as I am.
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Joyce Caputo posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
My deepest sympathies to you all! I am so sorry that she has left this world too soon! Debbie always had a smile! She was a great Mom and she loved her children! God's blessings!
Joyce Caputo
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Paula Ginder posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss of a loving, caring and compassionate woman. Not only will her loving family miss her, but she will be missed by the many people whose lives she touched. Rest In Peace my friend.
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Jenny Depew posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
She was a wonderful woman who transformed so many lives. Her talent, bright smile, and booming voice will live forever in my memories of the times we had together. I'll miss our dinners and evenings at Bill's house. I miss you sister.
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benita zahn posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
My heart goes out to all of you .. Deb was filled with light and gladly shared that with everyone. I think I always laughed when I was in her company ... generous, fun, caring ... we were all better for knowing her .. May her memory be a blessing ..
Benita
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Bill Depew posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
She was a phenomenon, with a heart as big as her personality. I will miss her terribly.
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Paul Cuttica posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
My sincere condolences to Debbie's family. I have many fond memories of working with Debbie on various productions. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul
Saginaw, Texas
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Monday, June 19, 2017
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Scott Truesdell posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Te adoro My loving stage wife and best friend
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Theresa Shepherd posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
I did not know this wonderful woman but know her daughter in law Diana and met her son Dan a few times, they adored her and are going to miss her but know she will always be watching over each an everyone of you forever, AMEN
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Gary Carter posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Daniel and Nathaniel. I symparhies , prayers, and thoughts fo out to you and your families. I am still numb that uour mother is gone. She was a wonderful friend and such a wonderful person! I loved her dearly! The world is a better place becaise of her!
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Kathi Dermott posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Please know how very sorry we are for all of you on the loss of such a special lady. I have been in this family for 15 years and memories of Deb are many. From holidays to weddings to parties and always remember how she gave great hugs and said great to see you. Her smile lit up a room. From all I've seen she was adored by so many. The last time I saw her, was a year ago at her retirement party. She was surrounded by so many showing their love of this lady and so glad just to be in her presence ..God Bless you all and just know the Lord now has a very special Angel who I'm sure is planning things at the Heaven's Theater ..... much love, Kathi
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Kelly Curtis posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers and strength being sent your way
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Monday, June 19, 2017
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